You Can Love Without Making Love…

For all of you young girls out there.  Thinking about it.  Feeling pressured.  Wondering if it’s the only way to be loved…

My advice is that you wait.

There is no rush.

No emergency.

It is such a beautiful way of expressing your emotions and yet, it will bring responsibility, a big responsibility.

And though the act is performed by 2 people, if there are consequences they are carried by only one person.

Be the sensible one.

Wait until you know who you are, you own who you are, you love yourself and know you can walk away from the other person and be whole and functional without them.

If you don’t think you can be strong without them, it’s even more reason not to.

Or you will forever depend on them for your self-worth.

You can love without making love…

 

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